How to Quantum leap into your wealthiest self in 3 steps
Sep 28, 2025
Before I share with you the steps, let's first ask the big ‘why’.
Why?
Because everyone is trying to become the wealthiest version of themselves, yet nobody is asking:
Why knowing who you are is your unfair advantage?
There’s a famous quote that says: You don’t want to be LIKE someone else. Why? Because "no one can beat you at being YOU."
So, the most underrated thing you can do in life is know your own strengths, capitalize on them, and stay focused on your own journey.
But how do you REALLY know yourself?
Now that's the main question!
Most people think “knowing” is just awareness, but in my opinion? It's embodiment.
Why am I saying embodiment? because watching tutorials on 'how to build a business" is waaaay different than actually building the business.
That said, if you don’t embody that version, you’ll end up sounding like every other wantrepreneur shouting: “Oh, this is easy. I’d do it differently if I had the business/ resources/ time.”
Well, you don’t. So stfu.
Now the truth? When you step into the game of self-actualization, you realize how ( excuse the trigger) mediocre you really are.
Just like me a couple of years back..I thought I knew business and finance more than anyone..
I mean, 8 years of studies.
Bachelor’s. Master’s. MBA.
Then I started my first real business.
And my first realization?
“How mediocre I am at this.”
My perspective shifted overnight, from a know-it-all graduate to a level-0 entrepreneur.
To be honest? My ego took a huge hit. And no matter how much I tried, the results didn’t come in as fast as I expected.
Over time, I realized this happens to everyone:
- Most people think they’re smarter than their neighbor.
- Everyone thinks they’re more skilled than they actually are.
- And everyone believes it’s easy to do what someone else has done, until they try and get slapped by their own mediocrity
This illusion of confidence makes us live reality from the outside in, instead of the inside out.
That’s when the shadow of human nature creeps in:
- Comparison.
- Judgment.
- Envy.
And reality mirrors it back.
Now, in this letter, I'm going to simplify the 3 steps to becoming the highest version of yourself, and how to play the game of life for your advantage:
1) Shifting: The Why Behind It All
- If I DO something,
- I’ll HAVE something,
- and then I’ll BE someone.
- They become first.
- They do from that state of being.
- And then they have.
This is why most people stay stuck in loops. They’re shadowy in their being, so reality mirrors it back with more misery, more excuses, more proof of limitation.
That’s when life snowballs into:
- Complaining.
- Gossiping.
- Hating.
- You wake up.
- You audit your life.
- You set your vision.
- You choose a project.
- You start level-0 at that skill.
2) Creation: Building the vehicle
- Your rhythm
- Your strengths,
- your natural way of expressing.
You stop wasting energy trying to copy everyone else.
- Yes, you learn from others.
- Yes, you take inspiration.
- But you do it with discernment.
You ask:
You have to audit your entire life.
- Were you good at sports?
- At drawing?
- At coding?
- At writing?
- At debating?
I have evidence of endurance.
The ability to stay in the game, focused, for long stretches until the goal is reached.
A whole round may last 1 minute.
That’s a different strength, precision and speed.
- So maybe you’re wired for endurance.
- Maybe you’re wired for quick execution.
- Maybe you’re wired for creative improvisation.
- Forcing yourself into someone else’s mold vs. creating your own path.
- Doing what looks good on paper vs. doing what feels good in practice.
- Blindly copying strategies vs. critically thinking about what resonates with you.
Your vehicle is aligned with who you are, not who you think you “should” be.
- Money → Let money make more money.
- Coding → Build systems that scale themselves.
- Content → Turn words, videos, and ideas into assets.
- Connections → Leverage networks and trust.
You just need YOU.
- Writing (your thoughts into magnetic words)
- Speaking (your truth into influence)
- Storytelling (your life into resonance)
- Selling (your value into digital wealth)
No one’s watching.
No one’s listening.
It’s like throwing darts in the dark.
Closer to the higher version of yourself you chose to embody.
3) Expansion: Becoming Your Wealthiest Self
This is where the shift happens.
Your words stop being just words.
They become resonance.
People start saying:
Wow, this post spoke directly to me.
“This is exactly what I needed today.”
- Your presence is expanding.
- Your creations are being seen.
- Your words aren’t echoes anymore. They’re frequencies shaping someone else’s reality.
And then comes the beautiful part: you create offers.
- Offers that change lives.
- Offers that carry your essence.
- Offers your students love, because they were born from your truth, your vision, your process.
- You have offers that feel aligned.
- You have an audience that trusts you.
- You have the freedom to live life on your terms.
- You have the wealth that matches the vibration of that version of you.